She is very amazing and such a supporter, which is something very surreal to say,” Shahidi told W Magazine of Michelle Obama. The actress has applied to four-year colleges
on the east and west coasts, including Harvard. Michelle attended
Harvard Law School, and her daughter, Malia, will matriculate at the Ivy
League college next year.
And like Malia, Shahidi plans on taking a gap year before she starts school.
“I know when Malia Obama announced [she was deferring], she got a lot of
slack, but I feel like what’s interesting is I know so many people that
are deferring. It’s more than to just roam around or just sit down and
stare at a wall, but it will also give me an opportunity to work,” she told People
last October. “I’ve been working more than half of my life and that’s
always been balanced with school and all of the other responsibilities,
so to have a year to focus on work and to focus on specified interests
will be nice before I pick a career and choose what I want to study and
my life path.”
She plans on double-majoring in African American studies and sociology.
Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.
Stop:
Yelling at him in front of his friends
Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like
Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you
Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him
Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend
Forcing him to spend every moment with you
Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws
Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake
Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want
Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want
Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you
Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes
Telling him you are the best
thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love
Physically attacking him when ever you are mad
Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to
Invading his privacy by going through his phone
Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is
If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy.
Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.
Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive.
